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Bereavement

When someone you care about suddenly leaves your life, it's not a case of taking time out to recover. Grief, although normal, can manifest in unexpected ways. Some people get angry, some people withdraw into themselves and some people become completely numb. Sometimes, grief can trigger mental health conditions, like depression.

Bereavement counselling can provide support during these very difficult times. Talking about the loss often allows a person to adjust to their new life good and bad. Keeping things bottled up or denying the sadness could prolong the pain. Any loss has to be acknowledged for us to move forward. Bereavement counselling tries to help people find a place for their loss so they can carry on with life and eventually find acceptance. Bereavement is about trying to accept what happened, learning to adjust to life without that person and finding a place to keep their memory alive while you try to get along as best you can.

The bereavement period can be a confusing time involving a lot of powerful emotions. These emotions can grow, fade and shift as we move across the different stages of bereavement. Not everyone experiences the same stages of bereavement at the same time or in the same order, though most people generally go through the following four stages at some point:

  • accepting that your loss really happened
  • experiencing the pain that comes with grief
  • trying to adjust to life without the person who died
  • putting less emotional energy into your grief and finding a new place to put it so you can move on

Who can help you?

Counselling services in the North Coast Causeway area of Northern Ireland, we can offer you an initial telephone consultation for 15/20 minutes free of charge for you to discuss the reason you are seeking counselling.

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Louise O'Kane

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My name is Louise and I am a fully qualified professional integrative counsellor. My therapy base is…

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Monica O'Neill

Integrative Counsellor

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I am a professional, qualified, integrative counsellor providing a counselling service and I am base…